Originally Posted by Cat Herder:
I'd also suspect Mom wants to build her case to Dad that she just MUST be a stay at home mom and he NEEDS to fund it 100%.
Be careful with that type. They live to make false allegations with no concern for how it will affect your career. 
At this point, I wouldn’t be surprised if she did pull them. She just acts like her kids are the only ones here. She is constantly asking the most ridiculous questions. She wants to see the swing and pack and play “to ease her mind”. She wants the owlet, and if he cries she wants to know. She is stressing about milk and basically anything you can think of. I have been nice and answered all her questions on my time off. Going back and forth for hours and I’m done. She either has to trust me or find another provider because this is exhausting