Personally, I think being a mandated reporter means "suspected abuse" and since you know that they aren't necessarily abusing their child I would speak directly with them and explain your situation. I might even go so far as asking them to provide some sort of written explanation for the bruise so that you can file it in the child's file "just in case" you need it later (and to protect yourself).

I would also speak with them about the issue and let them know that your doctor also suggested the same "unacceptable" practice and although it came from the doctor, it really isn't an ideal method for curbing the child's biting issues.

I would think that if they are receptive to listening to someone who knows about early childhood issues (you) then they will be more than willing to have you help them overcome this situation.

I would offer them resources, ideas and support so that they approach this in a more appropriate manner than to simpy bite the child back.

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