I would document every time, it will be a pain,.. maybe make a deal out of it,.. Isaac, this is your occurance notebook. Each time you are mean to someone or have to go to time out we will write the reason why. date and mention every single thing, what happened, what you did. Then I would give the other kids hand stamps for good behavior,... at pickup time,.. and then when he asks for his get out the notebook,... read through what happened. "sorry Isaac, maybe tomorrow you wont have any " writes". And you can have a handstamp too. But today you did not behave and you will not get a handstamp. Maybe on fridays, let the kids who had 3 or more handstamps watch 5 min of cartoons before nap? (Ive done this and it worked for me)

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