Originally Posted by littlemissmuffet:
Nope. It's my job to make and serve healthy nutritious meals and it's the DCKs job to eat it. If they don't, it's not my problem. When parents mention anything about their child's weight or the foods I'm cooking, or even have the audacity to suggest I serve GARBAGE I simply reply by letting them know I teach children the importance of eating healthy well-balanced diets - "and I recommend you do the same at home if you aren't already"... and I just walk away. I am not these children's mother, and my parents don't have any kind of say in what I do/don't do in my daycare. I don't do guilt. There are plenty of daycares in my area that serve junk and they charge much less than I do - don't let the door hit you on the way out 
Absolutely and totally agree. You can lead a horse to water but you can not make it drink.
Parents feed the crappy foods at home out of laziness because at the end of the day they don't want to hear their kids whine.
Try not to let heir little comments bother you.