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Yup!

Originally Posted by Catherder:
Most likely child is feeding off Mom.

If mom dreads drop off because of her child's previous reaction during the typical 8-10 month old "stranger danger" phase and continues to act nervous, so will her child. (Mothers guilt is deadly )

If mom acts nonchalant, so will child.

I tell my moms this when their child is a newborn, I remind them often that I "predicted it" since I am a wizard.

It is a running joke and I offer them my "magic ball" (what to expect; The toddler years) from time to time.

We laugh alot here, it makes it easier to not feel judged, but part of the joke, YKWIM?

Beg mom to test the theory with a big smile, double dog dare her if it will work with her personality....make it something fun between you and mom.

Send text photos of child playing just minutes after Moms departure to alleviate Mom's fears often if possible.

Typically, IME, she will laugh or hug your neck when she see's how quick it stops.