Yes to the belly time, no to the confinement equipment, no to the excessive paperwork and micro-managing.
Sounds like Mom's personal/professional life is out of her control and she is grasping for the only source of power she has.
I'd give her a copy of the schedule, post menus and tell her I will let her know of anything outside of normal developmental milestones immediately. If she needs more services, she will have to find a provider/therapist who offers them.
