I just wanted to add, as a fellow codependant people pleaser, I completely understand!! BUT the fact that you understand your personal psychology as a result of your upbringing is huge and will greatly benefit you. You are now able to observe your thought process and work to change it! Each time you challenge your thought process and see how flawed it is, the better you get at it and the greater your self esteem becomes. Question question and question those thoughts that tell you that you are not worth as much as they are and question your need to be "liked"
The conflict is really only in our minds!