Congratulations on the pregnancy!!! I would not consider taking him on (and DCM may really try to guilt/pressure you into it). If you are pregnant, he would make it even more streesful for you and could even cause you physical harm if he was aggressive around you. Not worth it, IMO! Luckily DCM was upfront and honest about it.
I would just send an email saying, "Thank you for coming by to interview, it was so nice to meet you and DCB. Unfortunately I am not able to offer a position at this time. Good luck in your child care search!
Sincerely,
DCP"

I don't explain anything, just keep it short and professional! Good luck finding someone to fill your spot, and I hope your pregnancy is going well- the second trimester is usually SO much easier (if you had morning sickness for the first).

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