Originally Posted by Willow:
Yes.
I'd absolutely believe that could be the case.
His lack of affection at 4 is textbook for attachment disorders which commonly leaves kids chronically anxious.
That you mention his parents are into the "be a man" bit when he is only 4.....that's a bucket load of pressure right there.
If you cannot or do not want to support him through his anxiety then it is best you term, but if I were in your shoes I'd certainly talk to the parents about getting him help before you part ways.
This exactly.