I have had several kids that would have done the same. I would probably just say something along the lines of "I heard Suzi really wanted to keep Miss XXX on her toes all day and make sure she was following the rules. I do appreciate her looking out for me but she needs to understand that when I am not here it is ok for Miss XXX to do whatever she needs to do in my house. I would appreciate it if you would also explain to Suzi that Miss XXXX is in charge.

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