IMHO, do not text/call/email any non emergency info to a parent during the day. They have a job to do and can't do it if they are communicating with their provider all day. Likewise, providers have a job to do and it isn't updating the parent all day long. Quick updates can be given at pickup.

Yes, a soggy diaper on a 3 yo is disgusting, but it's not the end of the world. Change the diaper and move on with your day. The mom knows that the bf walks on water and won't appreciate you telling her otherwise.

If you decide to term, keep it short and sweet as the above provider wrote. If you fear retaliation, notify your licensor and let it go.

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