We don't want you to leave. We want you to choose one username, stick with it, and well, stick with it. We want you to be clear on whether you are a parent or a provider, what state you're in (or don't disclose it, but don't lie please), etc.

We don't mind unregistered posts from registered users when they a) own up to being registered and b) are posting a sensitive topic.

We have had issues in the past where people posting unregistered having harrassed members. Many times, the unregistered posts are controversial and pot-stirring.

We are a fairly close-knit group of FRIENDS and we like to know who is posting. We don't ID with actual names, but we do ID with usernames...and when someone is being extremely flaky and confusing, posting on the same topic under two or even three identities, all of them posing very, very different views, well...we get a bit antsy.

We are here for support, and so are the mods--we notice something that seems off, and so for the protection of all our friends on the board, we keep an eye on it.

I'm sorry you feel attacked; that was not the intention. You have, however, been posting LOTS of pot-stirring things unregistered, and your TWO usernames have been responding on the SAME threads with differing viewpoints. THAT is what we would rather not have happen, please.

Anonymity is great...deliberate deception, well, not so much.