I don’t view this post as mean spirited. The OP just is sharing her experience. It may not be to everyone’s liking.

I don’t want a gift out of obligation. I don’t want a gift at all from my DCPs.

Yet, if they think about me on a holiday. Whether text, photo, bonus or food I am most thankful.

I don’t feel the need to be dishonest here:

If I received an oven mitt from a DCP, I’d think, “A thank you would’ve be better.” I’ll also add if DCP said, “Little Apple of my Universe saw this & wanted to get it for you.” I’d chuckle. And make sure DCK noticed me using it during meal times.

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