Originally Posted by Mad_Pistachio:
ah, the everlasting "us vs. them" debate...
I don't think it is that simple.
All parents are "them". That includes "us".
U.S. Culture is changing and MOST parents are not as involved in raising their kids. That includes "them" and "us".
Kids who don't spend enough time with their parents don't generally learn the same culture, values and traditions of their elders. They risk being disconnected from their families and communities as adults. We already see it everywhere.
I am an example of this. My parents spent very little time with me. I was raised by daycare, TV, books and neighbors. I have
nothing in common with them, still spend minimal time with them (3 hours/year), know little about my family history and have no bonds with extended family.
I am far from alone. Granted I am not sure if that is a good or bad thing.
That is a bigger debate for another day.
It is bigger than "them" vs "us".