Joyce~ I agree that at first I was not completely comfortable with what I thought she was saying either. I wanted to be supportive first before thinking the worst. I tried being vague in my response, hoping for further elaboration from OP:
Originally Posted by Blackcat31:
Those are the kids who need us the most... 
I also agree that we do need to give and get reality checks from time to time, and doing that without emotionally reacting is tough. I think it is better to start a conversation before judging anyone though....I like to get all the facts first.
I wish we all had the ability to let things slide and not take it so personal, but one thing I have learned in this job is that most people who care enough to be in it are people who feel everything is personal....kwim?
Apparently, we on the same side, just reacted from different perspectives....
with the same intent.
