Signs of concern....
This week he went pee on himself twice in the same day - during lunch he refused to eat, when done with lunch all the kids know they go potty wash hands and lay on their nap mat. I told dcb it was time to go potty and lay down and he starting screaming/crying "I'm hungry" then was so focused on eating slow he was starting to fall asleep sitting up, I encouraged him to lay down (while not wanting to cause a scene and him wake all the other kids up which he did once last week) nope he was hungry..... and so sleepy he did not realize he needed to pee so accident #1 took place. I cleaned him up told him he needed to come lay down he starting screaming "I'm not tired I want mommy" woke up 3 dcks so I let him read quietly on the couch while I got the other dcks back settled --- I returned to dcb having fallen asleep and accident #2 pee on himself again and my couch!
This dcb has not had an accident in several months......