So you said dcm has full custody of dcg? If so you need to have some sort of legal paperwork saying so and then dcd has NO reason to be on your property at all. EVER. If there is a court order or legal visitation schedule it should list when and where dcd can pick up and drop off his daughter. If the couple is just separated and no custody order has been made yet that is legally documented, I do not think you can deny dcd his child if he wishes to pick her up. Mom's word is NOT thelaw and child belongs to both parents lehgally if they are stil married, UNLESS they are leagallyseparated WITH a written custody agreement that spells it out. You cannot just go on mom's verbal saying that dad can't pick up. Mom needs to get some paperwork in order to make it right at daycare for you. She needs to have copies of all of this to give to you so you can keep it on file and if and when dcd shows up at daycare you can legally call the police if it is a time he is not allowed to come (according to custody papers)

If you just call police now and say mom doesn't want dcd to see/pickup dcg, police will tell you it needs to be a legal court record to deny him access to his child. Does that make sense?

I would tell mom you do not want the drama in or near your house and SHE needs to get this paperwork done immediately for yours and the other dck's protection. Hope this helps.

If they are not or were never married and she has papers stating that she has full physical custody then he has no legal right to even be on or near your house. Have mom give you copy of that statement and you shouldnt have anything to worry about in regards to dcd because you canlegally call police and he will be told to stay away. If he tries to say he is only wanting to see his kid, police will tell dad to take it to court to get visitation.

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