That is so nice of you to help her out. I know your not asking for advice but when I read your post I was sad for dcp and scared for you.

Like another person said, I would reevaluate the situation at a later date. I know you want to think the best of people but...what if she does end up getting money from the dad in a few months and it would be much easier for her to spend it on other things than say..."hey silver ya know what, I have more money now..how much more can I pay you."

I guess I just wouldnt do it for too long...in the long run your family finances are what hurts. But on the other hand you are so sweet for helping them out!

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