Well she finally texted me back with:
I just thought it was weird. I just thought I could dress her in whatever I buy for her. I know she just gets really hot, especially during the summer so we both like for her to wear sandals.
Seriously!! What would you say to this? I have NEVER had to deal with this before
I don't want to lose them but I also don't want to give in to her because she will expect it for whatever else rule she doesn't agree with
We live in Texas...EVERYBODY gets hot not just her snowflake!!!!