Originally Posted by nannyde:
I tell the truth and I don't do compliment sandwiches. I hate that.
It dilutes the message. I don't play when it comes to discussing behavior issues.
I agree with this. I used to do the compliment sandwich but it is just a waste of time.
I only discuss negatives if it really serious and something I need the parent to help me with. Otherwise I say they had a good day, the usual, ate and slept well. The less info the better and then when a serious topic comes up I tell them bluntly and they take it more seriously. Constantly complaining about little negative behaviors waters it down I think when it is something bigger.