you have to start telling her exactly what is and is not okay with clear, short, simple sentences that she cant argue with. you are being too passive and she is taking that as a sign that she can do whatever she wants. If a mom keeps hanging around, i will straight out say "Okay I need you to leave now so I can get to work. See you tomorrow"

If her kids start coming in the house "Sorry, no big kids in the house. We pickup little brother/sister and then we go home. Bye!"

If she wanders around the house "I cant let you wander around the house. You are welcome in the daycare area for pickup and dropoff only. Thanks!"

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