Completely unacceptable. You said:

"I'm so mad I better not have to cancel all of our summer plans or she will pay dearly"

How, exactly, is she going to make you cancel any of your plans? I can't see how you owe her anything, or how she is going to ruin your summer unless you let her. She never updated you on needing your services and you've already made plans. Sounds to me like she needs another provider, and I wouldn't budge on that, not one iota. People who don't plan ahead try to inflict their self-imposed emergencies on everyone else. Don't fall for it.

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