I have a DCK that is on a partial scholarship from the state. The mom is single and works at a low paying job. Recently, however, she met a man she said she is marrying. She used to live in a modest home and walked or rode bikes to school. Now, since mom is engaged, she and DCK live in a very large, expensive home, drives a new high-end SUV, (fiance drives a sports car that costs as much as my house) and is sporting an engagement ring with a rock as big as my pinky toe. Suddenly, everyone has new clothes, new toys, goes on trips, etc. She says she is still working, but I never actually seems to be. So technically, she is STILL a single mom and STILL working a low-paying job (?). But they are clearly living large. Question is...should I call and report that I feel she no longer qualifies, or should I just mind my own business? With the economy the way it is, I'm sure there is someone on the waiting list that needs it more than she does. Wwyd??

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