Worried for your dd, if dcg is acting this way now, what is going to happen when you term?

I would call the school first and talk to the school more about what is going on. Let the teacher know that you will be terming DCG and you do not see it going well. Make a plan with the teacher to protect your dd, until this all blows over. Keep her up to date and ask her to let you know if anything happens. Consider pulling dd out of class for a few days or terming over a long weekend like Thanksgiving to give DCG a chance to get used to it.

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