I certainly don't think you should try to offer a diagnosis to the parents. And I wouldn't assume that they are bad parents because their child is not potty trained at 3.5. I do think that the behaviors and details you provided suggest that this child likely has a sensory processing disorder at the least and perhaps is on the autism spectrum. That, however, can only be diagnosed by a medical professional. Does your center do Ages and Stages or some other developmental screening? That may be a good tool to use to suggest that the parents should have a discussion with the child's pediatrician. Have you discussed your concerns with the director of your center?

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