Originally Posted by daycarediva:
While I agree to a certain extent (this is pretty extreme, all stuffed toys, dress up clothing, he will even chew other children's clothing if they are near him) He has chewed his car seat straps to the point that they are frayed. (not even going there about how loose they are and how dcp's aren't replacing them)
it is ALL DAY LONG EVERY DAY. I cannot constantly hug him. He is also NOT an affectionate child, even with his parents.
He does it 24/7, here, home, grandmas, all the same. So 24/7 anxiety?
Yes.
I'd absolutely believe that could be the case.
His lack of affection at 4 is textbook for attachment disorders which commonly leaves kids chronically anxious.
That you mention his parents are into the "be a man" bit when he is only 4.....that's a bucket load of pressure right there.
If you cannot or do not want to support him through his anxiety then it is best you term, but if I were in your shoes I'd certainly talk to the parents about getting him help before you part ways.