The fact you are even asking tells me you are likely not a "dumper". Usually dumpers are the ones who just don't want to deal with their kids. They will leave them open to close, go home from work shower, eat whatever run in at the last possible minute to pick up the kiddos, and NEVER keep kiddos home when they have a day off.

That is not the same as taking a half day off work to go to a doctors appointment and leaving kiddo in care for that time,etc as kiddo would be happier here where they can play than at that doctors appointment usually. I also prefer that if it is serious all kiddos stay home to try to keep from passing it, but if it is just a minor thing, they can bring the others.

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