Originally Posted by Ac114:
The problem I guess is my husband goes to bed at 7 because he gets up at 245am and he is not able to take time off work unless it’s urgent. This leaves me to take care of appointments, after school activities, or any errands that need ran during the week. I’m exhausted by 6pm and still have so much that needs done. I have a 7, 4 and 6 month old.
If your DH gets up at 2:45 AM he must come home fairly early in the day then?
If so, that would be an ideal time for him to pick up some of the chores, errands and household things that need to be done.
I see parents that work evening or night shifts use that excuse as a reason to not have to participate in duties of the family but ALL parents have the same 24 hours in a day... and there is no rule that says errands and appointments can't happen in the afternoon...LONG after your DH has gotten off work and MUCH earlier than he needs to be in bed.
