Originally Posted by JoseyJo:
Mom came right on time to p/u. She had tears in her eyes, apologized for how dcb has been acting here - signed term notice. Apologized again for any child who was hurt by him, said how much she loved it here and hopes she can call us at a later date when/if she figures out why he is acting this way right now, although she is not sure how since he doesn't act that way when she is around. Asked for our tax id for taxes, took his paperwork and belongings and left.
I felt relieved after the other 2 terms I have had to do. But after this one I just couldn't get it together and had to have hubby watch the dcks and go upstairs and cry! Maybe she really doesn't know what to do and is so scared that there is something wrong w/ him that she really can't see his behavior. 
Naw she is lying. You know she knows how he behaves because you are with her when she sees it.
She wants a deal where he gets to act like that and she pays money for the person to host it. She's just confused because she thought she had that in place. Now she has to search for someone who will allow it. She has to find someone or somewhere where she can say words about it and then not have to do anything else.
She doesn't have a problem with the way he acts or how other people feel about it. She has a problem with other people saying no to it.
It's way simpler than you think.