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Cat Herder 03:45 PM 01-09-2012
Originally Posted by Unregistered:
He is an only child, so he's not getting this from home, .
In my opinion, until you get past this statement nobody is going to add much input.

It is a red flag for most providers. It signals to them that you WANT to somehow place the blame with the provider. The conversation ended before it began.

It is obvious by your post that the provider is coming to YOU with these concerns. She has already looked for triggers and escalation behaviors. She is telling you that she is NOT having these issues from any of the other kids.
It seems you are not quite hearing her, yet.

The next step will be to look at the triggers that are causing your child to hit you at home.

It is hard as a Mom to admit sometimes it IS our child misbehaving.

I have an old video of my son mocking a bus driver to prove it.... I would have testified in court it did not happen, it was NOT in his nature, he KNEW better....then I saw the tape. KIDS are human, after all.

By next year you will be engulfed in another issue, so don't stop the world on this, just work with it as you can. It will get better with consistency. Two year olds are smart cookies.
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