Originally Posted by Rockgirl:
Maybe dcd doesn't want anything officially changed through the courts, for fear of it staying that way after he comes home.
He probably also doesn't want to start paying child support. That new arrangement would have him paying potentially a lot. Depends on income, but could be $500-$1000 per month.
It is a struggle to change once an order is in place. I'm sure besides money, he doesn't want to come home and be an EOW Dad.