Originally Posted by Cat Herder:
I am sorry. The whole thing sounds like a nightmare.
I was reading this looking for clues and am running out of time... so will simply link it. You probably already know it by heart, but here it is.. http://www.masslegalhelp.org/cori/juvenile-records
I hope it gets worked out soon. I have never heard of such a thing. 
Thank you so much! This is so helpful. I wish every legal person I talked to would have directed me here. Thank you again. I cant wait till this is behind me. It has consumed my life.
Two of my daycare children are my grandbabies And he is Uncle to them. So poor uncle feels like he cant even give them attention when they are here because they are usually only here during daycare hours or a special get together.