As far as helping her have you tried talking to the boys? I'd ask them how come they're being turkeys for their mom. They could disclose some helpful information for their mom. Also, everyday as they go home to remind them to be good. Every little bit helps.[/quote]

We did a little talking today about what's going on, so we'll see if that helps. I really think they may be just hitting the attention getting behavior (negative) really hard, and it's become habit when their with mom. The younger one has a bit of a speech delay but he said he's mad a mommy and the older one says everything he does is because of something the younger one does. He's really bright so sometimes I can be rational with him and he seems to get it. Of course he's also very emotional...
I almost feel like a mom who just found out her well behaved children are little tyrants at school. I'm not sure why this bothers me so much.

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