Originally Posted by Unregistered:
He does drink a lot of milk.
If he is drinking more than 3 cups per day (24 ounces, 24 hours) then he may be anemic. I'd not serve him any milk. Instead, I'd replace with servings of cheese or yogurt, add a protein to all meals/snacks then wait. Hungry kids will eat when they know they can't manipulate you. Also, tomato's and melons are fruit.
Someone taught him he could eat the way he does. Now someone has to teach him he can't.
I rarely serve milk anymore because it is over served at home.