Have you tried talking to him about it? Tell him your expectations of him before the tour, remind him right before they get there, and if he starts to act up during give him another reminder. If he does well, after the tour praise him for being a big boy and doing such a great job helping, if he acts up, tell him you are disappointed that he forgot to be a big boy. Make a big deal out of how sad you are that he wasn't your helper during the tour.

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