Originally Posted by Tasha:
It's not lying. Blackcat says her DH eats Peanut M&Ms to elevate his blood sugar; my daughter eats miniature peanut butter cups. We also eat a lot
of peanut butter. And I do a lot of Asian-style cooking with peanut oil. Truly,
it would be a huge lifestyle change, and it definitely wouldn't be fair to DD.
When she calls I'm just going to appeal to her as a reasonable human being and tell her that what she is demanding is not something that I can do and hope that she is rational about it.
Don't appeal... just TELL her.
No fuss
No muss
She has a child with a special need. She will understand that the child who needs to have access to peanuts must have her needs met. Tell her you have had the child from birth and you can not terminate as the child is protected under the disability act