I am glad that you are looking for another daycare situation for your son. I'm sorry that you didn't find the reassurance here that you wanted.

You came here asking for advice. You got honest, factual answers from the providers here. When you ask for advice from strangers, you get THEIR opinion. You did not ask for someone to hold your hand and pat you on the back.

You post concerns that you have for your son's safety, but say you don't want to traumatize him by switching providers. Being bullied by another child everyday can be traumatizing.

IMHO, you seemed more concerned about YOUR friendships with the provider and other moms than you did about your son's safety.

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