Why should they be potty trained if neither of them are showing signs of readiness?

The children are probably picking up on your stress over their toileting habits and holding everything in. That's really their only form of control in a stressful situation.

Try to stop focusing on it. To me this would not be an issue, especially since the parents seem to not be worried. Sounds like you are making the way more stressful than it needs to be!

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