My own kid is the one that had told "your not my friend to another kid". As well as one dcb, most of the time I let them continue playing if I hear this. I'll step in if they start arguing and just say right now let's play expertly we need time apart before we can play as friends.
Now my own also used the line you can come to my birthday twice (as far as I know). Told one dkg that no girls were allowed at his party. I stepped in and reminded him that yes girls were coming, that he has non dk friends and cousins that are girls . But did not tell him he had to invite her, (which he never for 2 reasons a. He really did not like playing with him, and b. They left daycare before his party). And he told me it once after being asked to clean his toys I told him fine no worrys but remember that I was the parent who makes his cake and decorations. I was quickly invited back.

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