Well he did call so that’s good! I asked him if there was any way I could help him out to make taking care of dcb easier for him as I know that he’s only with him for a short time and I worded it that I know kids that age can be a handful behavior wise for different parents. I said that I had noticed he might need a little help with dcb’s laundry. I suggested maybe bringing me 7 full outfits each Monday and I could wash them all so he’s always got something clean to wear. The conversation went really well, I was so crazy nervous at first to bring it up the right way but he was really receptive. He said the complex doesn’t have a laundry facility so he has to do laundry at friends houses. I’m so relieved he called and it went okay!
I didn’t mention that I would report him if there’s no improvement but at least I know he’s aware that I’m aware now. I documented the call in my log.