Originally Posted by Lucy:
I would wonder why. I would probably SAY, "Why???!!!???"
To me, it would make it seem like I have to treat them differently. Like subconsciously I'd be like "oh, they're the ones who give me tons of cash as a bonus, so I better be good to them."
I don't know.... way too awkward. Like it's brown-nosing or expecting things from you because of it. As I mentioned above, I'd have an overwhelming feeling of indebtedness to them. I wouldn't know how to handle it. If it was their last day, sure. To show me appreciation for the years of great care for their kid, and they gave me a big amount of money, that would be fine. But not for Christmas while they're still a client. It's just too awkward.
I really do need therapy. 
I get full week bonuses all the time and two weeks if the family has been with me for a few years. I've never felt an obligation to bend rules because of it. I've never felt indebtedness.
The bonus is for what you HAVE done not what you are GOING to do.
I work hard.
I don't miss work.
I'm on time ready to go every day.
I take excellent care of their baby. I strive for precision care... perfect care.
I'm respectful to the parents. I know my place.
I'm extremely grateful for their business.
and for an extra bonus... I love their kid. A lot.
So that's "why".