Honestly, I would tell him you are letting all your kids go, so in two weeks they will be done. Then, I would hand over responsibility of all the bills to him. They either get paid or they don't.
I would NOT get a job. You have children; they are your job, at least until everyone is in school. How he puts food on the table and pays bills is up to him.

If you think it would help, give him a couple of months to change over, and let him work on how to lower costs. If he agrees, then do it and don't look back. A LOT less work for you, and he can see what is going on with the bills.
For the record, your children are likely picking up on his attitude toward you and the daycare. Both are disrespectful. It is a quiet discussion you might want to have with him at a calm time.

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