Originally Posted by sahm1225:
Well.... I've had about 20something 2 year olds in my daycare throughout the years and in my experience, the not wanting their diaper changed was a phase. I had toys they could only play with at the changing table and that helped distract them enough for me to change the diaper. Once they realized that it was a quicker process if they didn't fuss, they typically stopped fussing.
But honestly, if your thought process went that someone is potentially molesting or abusing your child, I think you really need to think about WHY that was your first thought. Is there anything else that would lead you to that?
If you google '2 year old fighting diaper changes' or something similar, you would get tons and tons of forums discussing it and tips to get over that stage.
Agree with this.
Urgent care didn't do a urine sample?
How is he otherwise acting at daycare? Happy when you pick up?
If urgent care saw no signs of abuse, it's probably just a phase.