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dEHmom 04:54 AM 03-28-2011
Originally Posted by Tygerluv:
OHH no I didn't think of that!! Well I guess I will have to be creative when it comes to the term then. I'm thinking since my other 2 kids leave by 3:30 or 4:30 I could change my closing hours to 5 and tell her she is more than welcome to keep him here til 5 and have someone pick him up at that time (she has no one supposedly) or change her tanning session to weekends lol That sounds rude I know lol

I'm glad that I have had reports in about his attitude. They should have on record the behavior specialist I was working with for ideas in the beginnning.

TY Nannyde!!
So Sorry about all of that, and kudos to you for putting up with it.

One of the biggest things here, is he dcb gets away with things. He's learned that his behavior gets him what he wants, so this is what he knows. He has slowly figured out that you dont' put up with it.

But moms blatant disrespect is a major issue, and she needs to learn her lesson too. I wonder if she says things about you to dcb? or if he hears her say stuff?

It's not the money that should be your influence of keeping dcb. NEVER let it be the money. I know it's easier said than done. Your son also does not need to see this.

I would do as mentioned. Change your closing time till 5pm, if she doesn't like it, she can look elsewhere. She will:
a) amazingly be there at 5pm to pick up
b) have someone pick him up
c) pull him out, and then be begging you to take him back. If you take him back, you need to have her sign an AGREEMENT and one of the terms in the contract should be that she will have him assessed, and will follow all advice/suggestions she is told for his behavior from both you and the dr.
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