Everyone mentioned some great things that could be the cause and solution. I honestly would call your local Early Childhood Intervention office and see if they can do anything, most of the time they only work with 3 and under but they can point you in the right direction. If this behavior is not fixed or the problem identified she will start school on the wrong front.

If it is as extreme as you say and the other options don't work I would stop spinning your wheels and have a therapist observe her and decide. It could be a sensory thing, or some form of Autism etc. We just don't know, but inability to behave correctly in a social setting, observe boundaries, having tantrums excessively is not healthy.

Poor mom has to feel terrible and I know it is exhausting for you. If the mom chooses not to do anything it will get handled in Kinder, teachers are not going to tolerate that behavior and neither should you, and mom will be forced to do something. All you can do is bring it up.

Wish you the best.

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