Originally Posted by Unregistered:
The way she announced it to me just made me feel like it wasn't up for discussion.
That is the part that would trouble and upset me. It is possible she didn't mean to come across that way, but I would feel like I was being told "oh we don't care about your opinion we are just going to do what we want". I wouldn't allow the move until you as a parent feel better about it. You can always do it in a week or a month, but until you feel better about it don't do it.