I agree with BlackCat. Beg your co-workers for help. Tell them you are drowning, dreading work and are on the verge of a nervous breakdown. Ask them to come in and observe and help. I don't know why this is 100% YOUR problem. You have co-workers and a supervisor for a reason. They need to be helping you.

Mom is obviously the issue here so I'd be calling an after hours meeting with your supervisor and her to discuss what's going on. For me personally and professionally, pooping on the floor in the bathroom at the age of 7-8 is a desperate cry for help and sends red flags that some deeper issue is going on (which you already know).

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