Originally Posted by Ariana:
I would just say something like “wow johnny seems to be having a hard time transitioning to daycare these days, anything new happening at home”? Questioning THEM will take the heat off you. Nothing has changed on your end so they should not be blaming you. I would also suggest a quicker drop off so as not to give attention to the behavior and make it worse.
I'd also be suspicious that DCM may be making a play at staying home and needs ammunition to get DCD on board. Is she TTC?