I have to ask the same questions RosieTeddy already has. Have you taken the paci away completely at home? Many parents expect the provider to take care of the 'dirty work' first. I'm not saying that's what happened here but it's a different ballgame taking it away at home and at dc. There are other dcks that need to sleep at dc. No, they shouldn't have lied about it. They should be open and upfront about it. Do they have anything in their policies regarding paci use? Some providers insist parents take it away at home first, same as parents need to work on toileting at home and after some success then dc will support that effort.
If you otherwise like your child's provider, then work together on issues.

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