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When DCM realized that he just wanted some of her time and attention, she broke down because she didn't realize how her actions affected him. Once she began spending more time with him, his behavior gradually improved because all he wanted was to be with here. If the OP talked to DCM about spending more time with him, would she be overstepping her boundaries with mom? |
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When she is gone like this, her daughter really suffers and behavior goes out the window. I often ask mom, hey mom I know you were gone for the last several day and little susie has really missed you. I helped her make you a card and she really expressed to me how much you wants to spend some fun time with you. (DCG always says I want mommy to take me to Disneyland, even though she has never been). I don't do it to make mom feel bad, I do it to remind her that her daughter is affected by it and is really seeking out attention however she can get it. I know we could all probably share similar stories. Makes me sad for both the parents and the child.... |
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So for the two previous posts-is this something we should report for being neglectful/abusive?
Basically they are spending no time with their children and pretty much just putting them into their room for the night but really not for the right reasons. |
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However, when it crosses the line to PHYSICAL punishment of (barely) a toddler, then you are really treading thin ice. If a parent did it once, or say, even twice, (which I would NOT condone either) and realized a boundary had been crossed, I could almost (but not quite) understand. this Mom said ALL THE TIME and then, when THAT didn't work for his behavior, she went on to say that she SHUTS him in his room. She didn't say she goes through a nightime routine and ritual of putting her child to bed for the night. It did not sound "loving" in any way. I hope the OP has been checking in and has been at least considering some of the advice given here. THAT is my concern, FWIW. |
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I think shutting DCB in his room because she doesn't want to deal with him can be abuse. However, is it still considered neglect if all of the child's physical needs are met but the parent spends little to no time with their child?
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I'm wondering if this is becoming the norm. I've heard so many stories and have seen first hand how some parents spend so little time with their kids. But I also find that they are the first ones to complain about how bad their children are, even thou they spend the least amount of time with them.
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There are too many parents who think children are accessories that can be put away when not needed. I think a lot of parents have children because society says they should whether they want them or not.
I hope you can understand what I'm saying. I had trouble wording it. |
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Here is a fantastic flyer/site about being a mandated reporter, what things you should report and how. (I attached the pdf file below) It is definitely worth the read! If any providers don't have the information already, I really suggest printing it off and keeping it for future reference if you should ever need it. Also, here is a web-site that CLEARLY explains how to identify abuse/neglect in case anyone is unsure: https://www.childwelfare.gov/can/ide...ng/neglect.cfm Last edited by Blackcat31; 10-12-2014 at 07:57 AM. |
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bad behavior, files, mandated reporter, terminate - biter, violent behaviour |
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